Finding someone online is much easier than finding them outside of the internet.    Online dating sites make it virtually impossible not to find someone.    If you need a little assistance then maybe these few tips could get everything moving in the right direction of having a date with the one you have found.

There are a lot of things that you could talk about.  It might be better to listen though.  You can ask questions and then listen intently to the answers.  This is a good way to get to know someone and it will allow them to ask you the same questions in return.  If you plan it right, then you can already have your answers pre-planned before the date since you are the one controlling the questions.

This is a good way to paint yourself as a great and interesting person.  You could ask if they have ever been to Borneo and then find out if they have.  The trick is, you have been to Borneo and have a ton of stories to share from them as long as they ask if you have been there also.  You can do this once in awhile to stack the questions with ones that will show how interesting and fantastic you are when you are asked.