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Online Dating and Being Intelligent
Dec 27th
Intelligence is a big turn on for a lot of people. You don’t have to be super smart, but it doesn’t hurt to sound intelligent and there are a few easy ways to do that. When you are texting, sending emails or text chatting don’t use abbreviations. You will automatically appear intelligent if you spell out words for instance don’t type ‘I luvz u’ when you can simply type ‘I love you’.
It can appear a bit lazy if you continually type these odd shortened words that have no reason to be abbreviated. ‘LOL’ is just fine as that is now a universally accepted word, however, normal words should not be abbreviated in this manner. Take the time to type everything out, and do a spell check before you hit send. If your chat program doesn’t have a spell checker or a grammar checker then run it through a word processor by cutting and pasting back and forth. This is a really easy way to get intelligence points right away. Frankly, you don’t have to be the smartest person in the world. It is nice to use the intelligence that you have when you can.
5 Simple Dating Advice
Dec 22nd
If you have found that special someone to go on a date with, then obviously your online dating service is working. Now, what will you do when you go and meet your date? If you haven’t been on a date in awhile then you may need some helpful tips to get you to the second date. Here are those tips that can help:
1. Stay away from dates that want you to come over to their place for the first date. This is a big safety no-no!
2. Feel free to share humorous stories or anecdotes about your life, as they relate to the conversation. Laughter is a great way to help lighten up the mood.
3. Admit if this is your first time doing this. It may or may not be theirs, and if not, maybe they’d be willing to share some tips with you.
4. If you have had a really bad date in the past, they probably will have too. Compare bad dates, and have the loser buy another round of drinks or dessert!
5. Competitive personalities often come out when doing something competitive. Make sure you keep yours in check and play nicely!
Online Dating Advice
Dec 18th
Finding someone online is much easier than finding them outside of the internet. Online dating sites make it virtually impossible not to find someone. If you need a little assistance then maybe these few tips could get everything moving in the right direction of having a date with the one you have found.
There are a lot of things that you could talk about. It might be better to listen though. You can ask questions and then listen intently to the answers. This is a good way to get to know someone and it will allow them to ask you the same questions in return. If you plan it right, then you can already have your answers pre-planned before the date since you are the one controlling the questions.
This is a good way to paint yourself as a great and interesting person. You could ask if they have ever been to Borneo and then find out if they have. The trick is, you have been to Borneo and have a ton of stories to share from them as long as they ask if you have been there also. You can do this once in awhile to stack the questions with ones that will show how interesting and fantastic you are when you are asked.
Online Dating Tips
Dec 14th
Now that you have finally located the someone that you have been waiting for, how do you actually get to go on a date with them? Well, obviously they like you, since they are chatting with you online on an online dating website. The next move would simply be naming the time and location to meet up. However, you may want to peruse some of these tips before you go out on your date.
1. Meet in public. Don’t make your first date a home cooked meal. It raises the expectations too high.
2. Think about what you can discuss before you meet up. This will help with any pauses in conversation and keep topics flowing.
3. If you look good, you’ll feel good. Treat yourself to a new outfit for the occasion.
4. Don’t be afraid of rejection. They may not be enjoying themselves as much as you are, and that’s okay. There are plenty of other people to meet.
5. Have some funny stories handy. A little laughter can lighten up any occasion.
Using these tips is a good way to have a successful date. Once you have everything in order, you should be able to control the way that the date goes and in your favor!
Achieving Your Dating Objectives
Dec 10th
Finding the right person online can be difficult. You have to know exactly what you want from your online dating experience and for your life. Yup, it can be difficult. Luckily online dating makes it easier to find the right person for you. Just signing up and expecting the right person to show up isn’t going to work. What you need to do is make sure you have your expectations in the right place.
Write down everything that you want out of a person. Then go over the list again and add anything else that comes to mind. Then you will be able to go online and begin to pinpoint possible candidates that fit what you are looking for in a relationship.
If you spend some time searching and being patient, you should soon have a great list of possible candidates. You can then start to contact them one by one and see how the responses go. It doesn’t have to be entirely scientific, but going in without a plan could be disastrous. Instead, having a plan makes it easier to realize your goals because they are right in front of you. You can even cross off the candidates that fail to either respond or to meet your requirements. Hopefully you will be left with a few people and then you can go out and meet them in real life.
Dating a Compulsive Liar
Dec 6th
Does anyone really know when they are dating a compulsive liar? The only way they usually find out is when the big lies are revealed through the liar slipping up with their story. If you have gotten involved with a compulsive liar, then you may not even know it. They are very good at lying and it is possible that everything they have ever told you is a complete fabrication.
When you are dating someone for a very long time and you discover that they lied about something, It might make you wonder about the other things that have been lies. If you catch someone in a lie, then most likely that was not the first one that was told to you. It almost doesn’t matter what kind of lie, not matter how small or large, in a black and white world, a lie is a lie.
Do you give them another chance? When you realize that you have been dating someone that feels it is ok to lie to you and give them another chance, is that just giving them permission to lie to you until they get caught again? Yes, that is very possible. That is why it is so difficult to have to deal with a liar. You have invested so much time into them and so much feeling and all along they have not even giving you’re the same amount of respect. If you find out that your date has been lying to you about anything, then maybe you should keep looking and find someone that has more respect for you and know not to tell people lies.